Size-4 Counterexamples to the Sidon-Extension Conjecture

A finite set $S \subset \mathbb{Z}$ is a Sidon set if its pairwise differences are distinct. Recall that a perfect difference set (PDS) of order $n$ is a set $B \subset \mathbb{Z}_v$ ($v = n^2 - n + 1$) of size $n$ such that every nonzero residue arises exactly once as a difference of two elements of $B$. Erd\H{o}s's $1000 conjecture -- that every finite Sidon set extends to a finite PDS -- was disproved by Alexeev and Mixon (arXiv:2510.19804, October 2025), via the size-5 counterexamples $\{1,2,4,8,13\}$ and Hall's earlier $\{1,3,9,10,13\}$; they then asked: what is the smallest size $s$ of a non-extending Sidon set? The trivial bounds give $3 \le s \le 5$. Our evidence points to $s = 4$. We exhibit two integer Sidon sets, $$A = \{0, 1, 3, 11\}, \qquad B = \{0, 1, 4, 11\},$$ together with the apparent infinite family of dilations $kA$, $kB$ and their reflections, all of which fail to extend for every prime power $q \le 317$ via the Singer affine-orbit check (rigorous under Hall's 1947 uniqueness for Desarguesian cyclic planes through $q \le 40$ and under the prime-power conjecture beyond that), and unconditionally for every modulus $v \le 133$ via brute-force depth-first search. We also report the exact density $N_{\text{ne}}(N) = 4 \lfloor N / 11 \rfloor$ of non-extending size-4 Sidon sets in $[0, N]$ for $N \le 50$ -- the match is exact, which suggests the $kA, kB$ family is complete in this range. A complete proof, perhaps in the spirit of Alexeev--Mixon's polarity argument or via a multiplier descent, remains open.