We compute the electronic and emission properties of Coulomb-correlated multi-particle states (X0, X±, XX) in weakly confining GaAs/AlGaAs quantum dots using an 8-band k⋅p model coupled to continuum elasticity and configuration interaction (CI). We evaluate polarization-resolved oscillator strengths and radiative rates both in the dipole approximation (DA) and in a quasi-electrostatic beyond-dipole (BDA) longitudinal formulation implemented via a Poisson reformulation exactly equivalent to the dyadic Green-tensor kernel. For the dots studied, BDA yields lifetimes in quantitative agreement with experiment, e.g., τX=0.279ns vs 0.267ns (exp.) and τXX=0.101ns vs 0.115ns (exp.). The framework also reproduces electric-field tuning of the multi-particle electronic structure and emission-including the indistinguishability inferred from P=τX/(τX+τXX)-and we assess sensitivity to CI-basis size and to electron-electron and hole-hole exchange.