Spectral duality for a class of unbounded operators

We establish a spectral duality for certain unbounded operators in Hilbert space. The class of operators includes discrete graph Laplacians arising from infinite weighted graphs. The problem in this context is to establish a practical approximation of infinite models with suitable sequences of finite models which in turn allow (relatively) easy computations. Let $X$ be an infinite set and let \H be a Hilbert space of functions on $X$ with inner product \ip{\cdot}{\cdot}=\ip{\cdot}{\cdot}_{\H}. We will be assuming that the Dirac masses $\delta_x$, for $x\in X$, are contained in \H. And we then define an associated operator $\Delta$ in \H given by (\Delta v)(x):=\ip{\delta_x}{v}_{\H}. Similarly, for every finite subset $F\subset X$, we get an operator $\Delta_F$. If $F_1\subset F_2\subset...$ is an ascending sequence of finite subsets such that $\cup_{k\in\bn}F_k=X$, we are interested in the following two problems: (a) obtaining an approximation formula $$\lim_{k\to\infty}\Delta_{F_k}=\Delta;$$ and (b) establish a computational spectral analysis for the truncated operators $\Delta_F$ in (a).