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From "I love you babe" to "leave me alone" - Romantic Relationship Breakups on Twitter

Social and Information Networks 2014-09-23 v1 Computers and Society

Abstract

We use public data from Twitter to study the breakups of the romantic relationships of 661 couples. Couples are identified through profile references such as @user1 writing "@user2 is the best boyfriend ever!!". Using this data set we find evidence for a number of existing hypotheses describing psychological processes including (i) pre-relationship closeness being indicative of post-relationship closeness, (ii) "stonewalling", i.e., ignoring messages by a partner, being indicative of a pending breakup, and (iii) post-breakup depression. We also observe a previously undocumented phenomenon of "batch un-friending and being un-friended" where users who break up experience sudden drops of 15-20 followers and friends. Our work shows that public Twitter data can be used to gain new insights into psychological processes surrounding relationship dissolutions, something that most people go through at least once in their lifetime.

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@article{arxiv.1409.5980,
  title  = {From "I love you babe" to "leave me alone" - Romantic Relationship Breakups on Twitter},
  author = {Kiran Garimella and Ingmar Weber and Sonia Dal Cin},
  journal= {arXiv preprint arXiv:1409.5980},
  year   = {2014}
}

Comments

To appear in the 6th International Conference on Social Informatics (SocInfo 2014), Barcelona