LLM-as-judge frameworks are increasingly used for automatic NLG evaluation, yet their per-instance reliability remains poorly understood. We present a two-pronged diagnostic toolkit applied to SummEval: (1) a transitivity analysis that reveals widespread per-input inconsistency masked by low aggregate violation rates (ρˉ=0.8-4.1%), with 33-67% of documents exhibiting at least one directed 3-cycle; and (2) split conformal prediction sets over 1-5 Likert scores providing theoretically-guaranteed ≥(1−α) coverage, with set width serving as a per-instance reliability indicator (rs=+0.576, N=1,918, p<10−100, pooled across all judges). Critically, prediction set width shows consistent cross-judge agreement (rˉ=0.32-0.38), demonstrating it captures document-level difficulty rather than judge-specific noise. Across four judges and four criteria, both diagnostics converge: criterion matters more than judge, with relevance judged most reliably (avg. set size ≈3.0) and coherence moderately so (avg. set size ≈3.9), while fluency and consistency remain unreliable (avg. set size ≈4.9). We release all code, prompts, and cached results.